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n the bus ride home from the doctor, the strangest thing was happening to Mariam. Everywhere she looked, she saw bright
colors: on the drab, gray concrete apartments, on the tin-roofed, open-fronted stores, in the muddy water flowing in the gutters.
It was as though a rainbow had melted into her eyes.
Rasheed was drumming his gloved fingers and humming a song. Every time the bus bucked over a pothole and jerked forward, his
hand shot protectively over her belly.
“What about Zalmai?” he said. “It’s a good Pashtun name.”
“What if it’s a girl?” Mariam said.
“I think it’s a boy. Yes. A boy.”
A murmur was passing through the bus. Some passengers were pointing at something and other passengers were leaning across
seats to see.
“Look,” said Rasheed, tapping a knuckle on the glass. He was smiling. “There. See?”
On the streets, Mariam saw people stopping in their tracks. At traffic lights, faces emerged from the windows of cars, turned
upward toward the falling softness. What was it about a season’s first snowfall, Mariam wondered, that was so entrancing?
Was it the chance to see something as yet unsoiled, untrodden? To catch the fleeting grace of a new season, a lovely beginning,
before it was trampled and corrupted?
“If it’s a girl,” Rasheed said, “and it isn’t, but, if it
is
a girl, then you can choose whatever name you want.”
MARIAM AWOKE the next morning to the sound of sawing and hammering. She wrapped a shawl around her and went out into the snow-blown
yard. The heavy snowfall of the previous night had stopped. Now only a scattering of light, swirling flakes tickled her cheeks.
The air was windless and smelled like burning coal. Kabul was eerily silent, quilted in white, tendrils of smoke snaking up
here and there.
She found Rasheed in the toolshed, pounding nails into a plank of wood. When he saw her, he removed a nail from the corner
of his mouth.
“It was going to be a surprise. He’ll need a crib. You weren’t supposed to see until it was done.”
Mariam wished he wouldn’t do that, hitch his hopes to its being a boy. As happy as she was about this pregnancy, his expectation
weighed on her. Yesterday, Rasheed had gone out and come home with a suede winter coat for a boy, lined inside with soft sheepskin,
the sleeves embroidered with fine red and yellow silk thread.
Rasheed lifted a long, narrow board. As he began to saw it in half, he said the stairs worried him. “Something will have to
be done about them later, when he’s old enough to climb.” The stove worried him too, he said. The knives and forks would have
to be stowed somewhere out of reach.
“You can’t be too careful. Boys are reckless creatures.” Mariam pulled the shawl around her against the chill.
THE NEXT MORNING, Rasheed said he wanted to invite his friends for dinner to celebrate. All morning, Mariam cleaned lentils
and moistened rice. She sliced eggplants for
borani,
and cooked leeks and ground beef for
aushak.
She swept the floor, beat the curtains, aired the house, despite the snow that had started up again. She arranged mattresses
and cushions along the walls of the living room, placed bowls of candy and roasted almonds on the table.
She was in her room by early evening before the first of the men arrived. She lay in bed as the hoots and laughter and bantering
voices downstairs began to mushroom. She couldn’t keep her hands from drifting to her belly. She thought of what was growing
there, and happiness rushed in like a gust of wind blowing a door wide open. Her eyes watered.
Mariam thought of her six-hundred-and-fifty-kilometer bus trip with Rasheed, from Herat in the west, near the border with
Iran, to Kabul in the east. They had passed small towns and big towns, and knots of little villages that kept springing up
one after another. They had gone over mountains and across raw-burned deserts, from one province to the next. And here she
was now, over those boulders and parched hills, with a home of her own, a husband of her own, heading toward one final, cherished
province: Motherhood. How delectable it was to think of this baby,
her
baby,
their
baby. How glorious it was to know that her love for it already dwarfed anything she had ever felt as a human being, to know
that there was no need any longer for pebble games.
Downstairs, someone was tuning a harmonium. Then the clanging of a hammer tuning a tabla. Someone cleared his throat. And
then there was whistling and clapping and yipping and singing.
Mariam stroked the softness of her belly.
No bigger than a
fingernail,
the doctor had said.
I’m
going to be a mother,
she thought.
“I’m going to be a mother,” she said. Then she was laughing to herself, and saying it over and over, relishing the words.
When Mariam thought of this baby, her heart swelled inside of her. It swelled and swelled until all the loss, all the grief,
all the loneliness and self-abasement of her life washed away. This was why God had brought her here, all the way across the
country. She knew this now. She remembered a verse from the Koran that Mullah Faizullah had taught her:
And Allah is the East and the West, therefore
wherever you turn there is
Allah’s
purpose . . .
She laid down her prayer rug and did
namaz.
When she was done, she cupped her hands before her face and asked God not to let all this good fortune slip away from her.
IT WAS RASHEED’S idea to go to the
hamam.
Mariam had never been to a bathhouse, but he said there was nothing finer than stepping out and taking that first breath of
cold air, to feel the heat rising from the skin.
In the women’s
hamam,
shapes moved about in the steam around Mariam, a glimpse of a hip here, the contour of a shoulder there. The squeals of young
girls, the grunts of old women, and the trickling of bathwater echoed between the walls as backs were scrubbed and hair soaped.
Mariam sat in the far corner by herself, working on her heels with a pumice stone, insulated by a wall of steam from the passing
shapes.
Then there was blood and she was screaming.
The sound of feet now, slapping against the wet cobblestones. Faces peering at her through the steam. Tongues clucking.
Later that night, in bed, Fariba told her husband that when she’d heard the cry and rushed over she’d found Rasheed’s wife
shriveled into a corner, hugging her knees, a pool of blood at her feet.
“You could hear the poor girl’s teeth rattling, Hakim, she was shivering so hard.”
When Mariam had seen her, Fariba said, she had asked in a high, supplicating voice,
It’s
normal,
isn’t
it?
Isn’t
it?
Isn’t
it normal?
ANOTHER BUS RIDE with Rasheed. Snowing again. Falling thick this time. It was piling in heaps on sidewalks, on roofs, gathering
in patches on the bark of straggly trees. Mariam watched the merchants plowing snow from their storefronts. A group of boys
was chasing a black dog. They waved sportively at the bus. Mariam looked over to Rasheed. His eyes were closed. He wasn’t
humming. Mariam reclined her head and closed her eyes too. She wanted out of her cold socks, out of the damp wool sweater
that was prickly against her skin. She wanted away from this bus.
At the house, Rasheed covered her with a quilt when she lay on the couch, but there was a stiff, perfunctory air about this
gesture.
“What kind of answer is that?” he said again. “That’s what a mullah is supposed to say. You pay a doctor his fee, you want
a better answer than ‘God’s will.’ ”
Mariam curled up her knees beneath the quilt and said he ought to get some rest.
“God’s will,” he simmered.
He sat in his room smoking cigarettes all day.
Mariam lay on the couch, hands tucked between her knees, watched the whirlpool of snow twisting and spinning outside the window.
She remembered Nana saying once that each snowflake was a sigh heaved by an aggrieved woman somewhere in the world. That all
the sighs drifted up the sky, gathered into clouds, then broke into tiny pieces that fell silently on the people below.
As a reminder of how women like us suffer,
she’d said.
How
quietly we endure all that falls upon us.
T
he grief kept surprising Mariam. All it took to unleash it was her thinking of the unfinished crib in the toolshed or
the suede coat in Rasheed’s closet. The baby came to life then and she could hear it, could hear its hungry grunts, its gurgles
and jabbering. She felt it sniffing at her breasts. The grief washed over her, swept her up, tossed her upside down. Mariam
was dumbfounded that she could miss in such a crippling manner a being she had never even seen.
Then there were days when the dreariness didn’t seem quite as unrelenting to Mariam. Days when the mere thought of resuming
the old patterns of her life did not seem so exhausting, when it did not take enormous efforts of will to get out of bed,
to do her prayers, to do the wash, to make meals for Rasheed.
Mariam dreaded going outside. She was envious, suddenly, of the neighborhood women and their wealth of children. Some had
seven or eight and didn’t understand how fortunate they were, how blessed that their children had flourished in their wombs,
lived to squirm in their arms and take the milk from their breasts. Children that they had not bled away with soapy water
and the bodily filth of strangers down some bathhouse drain. Mariam resented them when she overheard them complaining about
misbehaving sons and lazy daughters.
A voice inside her head tried to soothe her with well-intended but misguided consolation.
You’ll
have others,
Inshallah.
You’re
young. Surely
you’ll
have
many other chances.
But Mariam’s grief wasn’t aimless or unspecific. Mariam grieved for
this
baby, this particular child, who had made her so happy for a while.
Some days, she believed that the baby had been an undeserved blessing, that she was being punished for what she had done to
Nana. Wasn’t it true that she might as well have slipped that noose around her mother’s neck herself? Treacherous daughters
did not deserve to be mothers, and this was just punishment. She had fitful dreams, of Nana’s
jinn
sneaking into her room at night, burrowing its claws into her womb, and stealing her baby. In these dreams, Nana cackled with
delight and vindication.
Other days, Mariam was besieged with anger. It was Rasheed’s fault for his premature celebration. For his foolhardy faith
that she was carrying a boy. Naming the baby as he had. Taking God’s will for granted. His fault, for making her go to the
bathhouse. Something there, the steam, the dirty water, the soap, something there had caused this to happen. No. Not Rasheed.
She
was to blame. She became furious with herself for sleeping in the wrong position, for eating meals that were too spicy, for
not eating enough fruit, for drinking too much tea.
It was God’s fault, for taunting her as He had. For not granting her what He had granted so many other women. For dangling
before her, tantalizingly, what He knew would give her the greatest happiness, then pulling it away.
But it did no good, all this fault laying, all these harangues of accusations bouncing in her head. It was
kofr,
sacrilege, to think these thoughts. Allah was not spiteful. He was not a petty God. Mullah Faizullah’s words whispered in
her head:
Blessed is He in Whose hand is the kingdom,
and He Who has power over all things, Who created death
and life that He may try you.
Ransacked with guilt, Mariam would kneel and pray for forgiveness for these thoughts.
MEANWHILE, a change had come over Rasheed ever since the day at the bathhouse. Most nights when he came home, he hardly talked
anymore. He ate, smoked, went to bed, sometimes came back in the middle of the night for a brief and, of late, quite rough
session of coupling. He was more apt to sulk these days, to fault her cooking, to complain about clutter around the yard or
point out even minor uncleanliness in the house. Occasionally, he took her around town on Fridays, like he used to, but on
the sidewalks he walked quickly and always a few steps ahead of her, without speaking, unmindful of Mariam who almost had
to run to keep up with him. He wasn’t so ready with a laugh on these outings anymore. He didn’t buy her sweets or gifts, didn’t
stop and name places to her as he used to. Her questions seemed to irritate him.
One night, they were sitting in the living room listening to the radio. Winter was passing. The stiff winds that plastered
snow onto the face and made the eyes water had calmed. Silvery fluffs of snow were melting off the branches of tall elms and
would be replaced in a few weeks with stubby, pale green buds. Rasheed was shaking his foot absently to the tabla beat of
a Hamahang song, his eyes crinkled against cigarette smoke.
“Are you angry with me?” Mariam asked.
Rasheed said nothing. The song ended and the news came on. A woman’s voice reported that President Daoud Khan had sent yet
another group of Soviet consultants back to Moscow, to the expected displeasure of the Kremlin.
“I worry that you are angry with me.”
Rasheed sighed.
“Are you?”
His eyes shifted to her. “Why would I be angry?”
“I don’t know, but ever since the baby—”
“Is that the kind of man you take me for, after everything I’ve done for you?”
“No. Of course not.”
“Then stop pestering me!”
“I’m sorry.
Bebakhsh,
Rasheed. I’m sorry.”
He crushed out his cigarette and lit another. He turned up the volume on the radio.
“I’ve been thinking, though,” Mariam said, raising her voice so as to be heard over the music.
Rasheed sighed again, more irritably this time, turned down the volume once more. He rubbed his forehead wearily. “What now?”
“I’ve been thinking, that maybe we should have a proper burial. For the baby, I mean. Just us, a few prayers, nothing more.”
Mariam had been thinking about it for a while. She didn’t want to forget this baby. It didn’t seem right, not to mark this
loss in some way that was permanent.
“What for? It’s idiotic.”
“It would make me feel better, I think.”
“Then
you
do it,” he said sharply. “I’ve already buried one son. I won’t bury another. Now, if you don’t mind, I’m trying to listen.”
He turned up the volume again, leaned his head back and closed his eyes.
One sunny morning that week, Mariam picked a spot in the yard and dug a hole.
“In the name of Allah and with Allah, and in the name of the messenger of Allah upon whom be the blessings and peace of Allah,”
she said under her breath as her shovel bit into the ground. She placed the suede coat that Rasheed had bought for the baby
in the hole and shoveled dirt over it.
“You make the night to pass into the day and You make the day to pass into the night, and You bring forth the living from
the dead and You bring forth the dead from the living, and You give sustenance to whom You please without measure.”
She patted the dirt with the back of the shovel. She squatted by the mound, closed her eyes.
Give sustenance, Allah.
Give sustenance to me.