Sex Made Easy (44 page)

talking to partner about,
199–200

thinking about people other than partner,
206–7

Feederism,
214

Fellatio,
71
,
79

Female condom,
187

Female ejaculation,
39–40

Female genital circumcision,
48–49
,
93

Feminine hygiene products,
82

Fever blisters (cold sores),
75

Fibroids,
88

Film, homemade sex,
215–16

Finger play and G Spot exploration and
stimulation,
28
,
30

Fisting,
205–6

Food ball,
242

Foreplay

cuts and tears and,
186

frenulum, licking and touching during,
45

orgasms and,
106–7

penis size and,
55

vaginal lubrication and,
33
,
34
,
37–38
,
55

Foreskin,
48–50
,
59–60

Frenulum,
45
,
45

Frequency of sex,
139
,
157–58
,
205
,
231

From Diapers to Dating
(Haffner),
237

Gardasil,
84–85

Gay men

dreams about having sex with women,
207–8

experimentation with gay sex,
212–13

HIV/AIDS and gay sex,
76

Genital exams, external,
69–70

Genital herpes,
74–75
,
86
,
87

Genital prolapse,
155–56

Genitals

appearance of and STIs,
75

cuts and tears,
41–42
,
185–86

dripping water on,
97

education about,
17–19
,
44

feelings about,
16
,
19

lubricants, burning from,
13

lumps and bumps on,
22
,
42–43
,
61
,
69–70

numbness or tingly of,
79–80
,
181

pain in,
27
,
33
,
34
,
39

piercings,
58–59

Genital warts,
22
,
42
,
73–74
,
83–86

Get Yourself Tested website,
77

Glans,
45
,
45
,
57

Gonorrhea

anal sex and,
192

condom use and,
85

cure for,
76

testing for,
63
,
72–73
,
76
,
187

transmission of,
76
,
79
,
86

Good Clean Love lubricant,
180

Good in Bed Guide to Anal Pleasuring
(Herbenick),
61–62
,
185
,
192–94

Grafenberg, Ernst,
27–28

Grandmother's pregnancy,
9–10

Great sex, potential for,
10–15

Great Wall of Vagina,
19

Green options and strategies,
179–80

Growers,
45

G Spot and G Spot orgasms,
27–30
,
93
,
175

Gynecological exams

annual,
26
,
67–71
,
81

education about,
66

pain during sex and,
30
,
34

Pap test,
66
,
70
,
74
,
80–81
,
85

Gynecologists as primary care physician,
72–73

Haffner, Debra,
237

Handcuffs,
206

A Hand in the Bush
,
205

Hand jobs,
60

Handler, Chelsea,
16
,
19

Hands, shaking,
86

Harris, Robie H.,
236–37

Headaches during sex and orgasms,
79–80
,
101

Head and neck cancers,
78

Health and sexual function,
135
,
220–21
,
235–36

Heiman, Julia,
109
,
167

Herpes simplex virus (herpes)

condom use and,
75
,
86
,
160

cure for,
75

genital herpes,
74–75
,
86
,
87

oral herpes,
75
,
86–87

prevalence of,
75
,
86

support groups for people with,
86

symptoms of,
75

testing for,
72

transmission of,
75
,
79
,
86–87

treatment of,
77
,
86

Hitachi Magic Wand,
103
,
130
,
167

HIV

circumcision and,
49

condom use and,
49
,
76
,
85
,
171

education about,
77

gay sex and,
76

myths about,
76

prevention of,
49

testing for,
59
,
63
,
70
,
72
,
76
,
187
,
188

transmission of,
79
,
86

treatment of,
77

Human papillomavirus (HPV)

cancer and,
78–79
,
192

condom use and,
74
,
78–79
,
160

cure for,
74

genital warts,
22
,
42
,
73–74
,
83–86

Pap test results and,
81

prevalence of,
74

strains of,
73–74

symptoms of,
74

testing for,
72

transmission of,
74
,
79
,
86

treatment of,
77

Human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccines,
66
,
84–85

Hysterectomy

orgasms and,
104–5

sexual desire and,
105

Incontinence,
39
,
156

Indiana University, Kinsey Institute,
9–10
,
11
,
46–47

Inhibited ejaculation,
129–31

Intercourse

curiosity about,
18

education about,
19

G Spot stimulation during,
30

orgasms during,
56
,
109–12

pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) lubricant,
52

pregnancy, labor, and,
230–31

vaginal bleeding after,
87–88

vaginal lubrication and,
33
,
34

Intimacy and feelings of connection

erections and,
119–20

good sex and,
141–42

orgasms and,
102–3

pressure to have sex and,
159

Itching,
66
,
88

It's Not the Stork!
(Harris and Emberley),
236–37

It's So Amazing!
(Harris and Emberley),
237

Johnson, Virginia,
218

Kama Sutra
,
58
,
195

Kegel exercises,
26–27
,
136

Kinsey, Alfred,
47

Kinsey Confidential audio podcasts,
9

Kinsey Confidential sex column,
196–98

Kinsey Institute, Indiana University,
9–10
,
11
,
46–47

Komisaruk, Barry,
96–97

Labia

circumcision, female genital,
48–49
,
93

difference in size and shape of,
30–32

labia majora (outer labia),
20
,
21
,
22–23

labia minora (inner labia),
20
,
21

labia puff procedures,
22–23

pushing inside during sex,
40

size and shape of,
21
,
30–32
,
40

Labiaplasty,
31–32
,
40

Large Penis Support Group,
56

Libidos, differences between partner,
157–58

Lichen sclerosus (LS),
41
,
70
,
85–86

Lingerie,
180

Living Well Beyond Breast Cancer
(Weiss and Weiss),
103

LoPiccolo, Joseph,
109
,
167

Lubricants

amount to use,
170

anal sex and,
193

benefits of using,
169–70

cuts and tears and,
186

design, safety, and instructions, input on,
9

genital burning from,
13

green options,
180

pain during sex and,
33

post-cancer sex and,
103

pre-ejaculate (pre-cum),
52

prostate play and,
61–62

research studies about use of,
12
,
169

running our during sex,
156

silicone-based,
156
,
169
,
176
,
185

vaginal lubrication,
27
,
33
,
34
,
37–38
,
40–41
,
53–54
,
155

vibrators, use of with,
176

water-based,
33
,
34
,
41
,
55
,
156
,
169
,
176
,
180
,
185

Lumps and bumps,
22
,
42–43
,
61
,
69–70

Maines, Rachel,
167

Mark, Kristen,
145

Master, William,
218

Masturbation

after C-section,
234

age and,
95

delayed ejaculation and technique for,
125–26

frequency of,
204
,
205

learning about,
16

lubricant use during,
169–70

orgasms and,
95
,
97
,
108

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder and,
36

prostate cancer and,
52

vibrator use and,
167
,
168

video about,
167

Masturbation sleeve (pocket pussy),
20
,
55–56

McCartney, Jamie,
19

Medications

ejaculatory control with,
128–29

for erectile dysfunction,
132–33

pain during ejaculation and,
136

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder and,
37

retrograde ejaculation (dry orgasms),
133–34

Men

casual sex, interest in,
119
,
120

embarrassment and shame about penis,
46
,
124–25

orgasm gap,
100

sexual health, reluctance to talk about,
122