365 Ways to Live Happy (28 page)

A great way to decide on whether or not to get a pet is to offer to pet sit for a friend. It's a good idea to care for the animal in its own environment rather than in your home because a puppy, for example, that likes to chew on things may ruin your favorite book, table leg, or shoes. But you can learn from pet sitting. You might discover that a guinea pig is not the right pet for you because of its nocturnal nature. An iguana might not move enough, and a parrot could show itself to be too possessive or talkative. But if you friend's pet is a dog, there's a good chance you will spend a happy weekend. Discover what many pet owners have learned, that their pets bring them much fun and happiness.

If you want to be a happy pet owner, then figure out how much that lovable little critter is going to cost you before you adopt him. Some surprises aren't so nice. You want to be sure that your budget can support the cost of such items as pet food (and treats and supplements), flea control products, veterinarian visits, annual shots, spaying, and city registrations (some communities require that register your pet and pay a fee). Once you know that you can afford your pet, then go ahead and welcome that little guy or gal into your life and expect to spend many happy hours enjoying your pet.

Sadly, not all dogs and cats brought into this world are guaranteed either a happy or a long life. And just because someone owns an animal does not guarantee they will properly care for it. Animal shelters all over America often have more animals than they can care for, meaning that some animals' lives will end there. You can make a difference by adopting a pet from a shelter.

You know you want a dog, but if you want to be happy and stay sane, don't get a dog just because it is adorable and friendly. Take the time to read a little about the various dog breeds. As for dogs of mixed breeds that you might find at a shelter, the shelter staff can most likely provide information about the dog's temperament. Whether purebred or mixed breed, some animals require more patience, understanding, and training than others. Of course, you will love your pet, but some of the things you might consider include whether or not it is:

• Aggressive toward other dogs
  

• Independent and stubborn
  

• Affectionate and good with children
  

• Territorial
  

• Likes to dig
  

• Barks a lot
  

You love outings with your dog so why not plan a dog party? Since a gathering of pet owners and their animals might not work so well for cats, iguanas, or turtles, you might want to stick to inviting only owners of dogs. Plan to host the outing at a local park, where the dogs can run and catch Frisbees and owners, when they are tired, can hang out in the shade and visit. Take along water and doggie treats for the canines and don't forget some little snacks for the pet owners. You want the day to be pleasurable for all who attend.

A happy pet owner is someone whose pet follows commands. You don't want your animal running off and not returning when you call her name. If your pet behaves like a rascal, for example, gets aggressive around other dogs, snarls threateningly at your friends or children, or doesn't follow your commands, causing you to fear for the animal's safety, it may be time to enroll in a dog training or obedience class. Perhaps all you need is a little refresher for the two of you to restore your peace of mind.

Exercise is a very important part of keeping your dog mentally and physically healthy. Regular exercise keeps your animal trim, agile, limber, and mentally alert. Physical exercise improves his joint health as well. Take him to the dog park where he can play with other dogs, too, because dog experts say it is good for his socialization skills. If your dog belongs to one of the larger dog breeds like Labrador or German Shepherd, leaving him in your back yard does not guarantee that he will exercise on his own. Take the time to exercise together as part of your daily routine. Think of it as happy bonding.

By sixteen weeks, your little cat or dog should have already received his core vaccinations. After that, regular visits to the veterinarian can ensure that your pet will have optimal health. When a problem arises, the vet usually can catch and deal with it before it develops into a major medical issue. So don't wait to make that initial appointment to have the vet check over your new pet. And, if it's been a while since you've had your other pets checked, make appointments for them as well. To ensure that you don't forget to ask about something, write down discussion points for the visit, including your pet's exposure to poisons, toxins, and communicable diseases. In addition, note any changes in sleep, diet, temperament, as well as exposures to ticks and fleas. When you know your pet is healthy, you can simply relax and enjoy him.

Instead of buying dog biscuits or other doggie treats, consider making some healthy treats. Look for recipes on the Internet (there are hundreds) or make up your own using natural ingredients including wholesome and healthy grains, vegetables, and proteins. Just like humans, dogs like foods that taste good. Remember to avoid chocolate and raw meat as well as artificial ingredients and additives that might cause illness or even death to some dogs. You'll feel better knowing that your dog is healthy and happy.