The Scorpion's Sweet Venom (14 page)

2) Indulge all your fantasies with your partner, with respect and affection. And take turns: today your fantasy, tomorrow,
your partner's.

3) Go to sex shops together to see what's new on the market. Even if you don't buy anything, it's worthwhile just for the
fun of it.

4) Try different places. You can't only have sex in bed now, can you?

5) Vary the intensity and style of sex: lovers, wild, gentle, hurried . . .

6) Lots of foreplay, always: this is the most interactive part of sex.

7) Never have a set day, time or script (kiss first, oral on her, oral on him and down to business . . .).

8) Investigate your partner's body, without limits: feet, the nape of their neck, stomach . . . find out what turns them on.

9) Never try to get someone to do something they don't want to - respect their limits. If you want to cross them, talk a lot,
make your partner relax, lead them gently.

10) Always make sure the woman comes first so she gets turned on and ready for everything else.

11) If you can't work out how your partner prefers something, ask gently.

12) Show love and affection afterwards - talk, smoke a cigarette or just hold one another. Coming, rolling over and going
to sleep is the pits . . .

13) Don't fake orgasms just to make your partner happy. If it didn't happen, it didn't happen.

14) Discover new positions. Missionary every day - no way.

15) If you have a fantasy that will definitely frighten your partner or make them think you're depraved, the best thing to
do is find a professional who can satisfy you.