The No-cry Potty Training Solution

Praise for

The No-Cry Potty Training Solution

“There’s more than one way to lead a toddler out of diapers, and this comprehensive book offers road maps to them all.”

—Paula Spencer, author of

Momfidence!
and
Woman’s Day
“Momfidence!” columnist

“As the mother of seven, I can tell you, potty training can be trying at best. Elizabeth Pantley’s expert and reassuring advice will save parents and children time and frustration from start to finish.”

—Robin Elise Weiss, author of

The Everything Mother’s First Year
and

About.com Guide to Baby Care

“She’s done it again! Elizabeth Pantley presents the information that parents need on potty training in her inimitable way—realistic, entertaining, fact-filled, un-preachy, but above all gentle.”

—Stephanie Neuman, editor
, www.babyworld.co.uk

“One of the things I love most about Elizabeth Pantley’s books is that she always offers a range of practical and realistic options, from which you can use those best suited to your situation and family and your child’s individual needs.”

—Barbara Lombard, co-owner
, www.earthbabies.co.za

“An excellent ‘must have’ guide for all parents who encounter the challenges of potty training.”

—Azmina Hansraj, editor
, www.baby-mates.com

“Elizabeth Pantley offers parents practical and creative solutions to common parenting questions. In
The No-Cry Potty Training
Solution
, Pantley provides the reader with simple guidelines based on experience and success. As a mother of six children, I can appreciate her perspective and contributions. As a health provider who offers services to children and pregnant women, I’ll be adding
The No-Cry Potty Training Solution
to our lending library shelves.”

—Jeanne Ohm, DC, ICPA (International Chiropractic
Pediatric Association) Executive Coordinator
the no-cry potty

training solution

Gentle Ways to Help Your Child

Say Good-Bye to Diapers

Elizabeth Pantley

Author of
The No-Cry Sleep Solution

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This book is dedicated to the Test Mommies and Test
Daddies who have worked with me on my No-Cry books:
Sleep, Potty, and Discipline. Each and every one of you
holds a very special place in my heart. It is a joy to know
that while you come from all different types of families,
and from all corners of the world, we share the same
goals, the same ideals, and the same heart.

I enjoy our many exchanges and I learn so much from you
and your children. I sincerely appreciate your willingness
to share and your enthusiastic commitment to help other
parents through the challenging and rewarding parenting
journey. And I cherish every photo you send of your little
darlings.

Thank you for everything.

I’m sending warm hugs to you and to your children.

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Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction

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The No-Cry Potty Training Solution

Quick Guide

Quick Guide 1: Facts About Potty Training

Quick Guide 2: Readiness Quiz

Quick Guide 3: Pre-Potty Training