“
That’s
debatable,” I mumbled.
“Yes? Why do you say that?”
I shrugged, looked away. “No reason. Never mind.”
I could feel, rather than see, her watching me. Neither of us said a word.
“Dominick,” she finally said. “In talking about your grandfather, you’ve been quite critical of what you see as his delusions of grandeur. I ask you to consider if that is, perhaps,
another
of the resemblances you share.”
I let out a one-note laugh—asked her what
that
was supposed to mean.
“It means that Thomas became schizophrenic and you did not because God or fate or random selection made it so. It means that your brother is at Hatch for the next year because the state thinks that is where he best belongs. You cannot control these things, regardless of what promises you made, or to whom.”
“Yeah, well, if I ever need a lawyer to help me beat a rap, I’ll call you, Doc. But the truth is, I could have gotten him out of there. I
know
I could have.”
She disagreed, she said.
“Okay, fine. We agree to disagree.”
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looking out. “I’ve watched you stare out this window many times now,” she said. “What are you always looking at so intently?”
Nothing, I told her. Just the river.
“Ah,” she said. “Well, do me a favor, please. Give me a demonstration of these great powers you have to direct the course of things.
Throw open the window, please, and
call
to the river. Tell it you want it to stop flowing in its present direction and reverse itself. Let me see this power of yours.”
I looked into her mischievous eyes. “I suppose you’re trying to make a point?”
“A little point, a little joke,” she said. “Would it not be futile for you to make such a command? To assume that the river would ignore its inevitable course and bend to your wishes? You are limited, my friend, in what you can and cannot control, as are we all. If you are to become healthy, you must acknowledge the ineluctability of your brother’s course. Acknowledge your limitations in directing it, Dominick. And that will free you. That will help to make you well.”
I looked from her smile down to the one on Shiva’s face. “So what am I
supposed
to do?” I said. “Shove him in a burlap bag? Drag him down there and throw him off the bridge?”
She reached out and touched the small of my back. Looked out at the river with me. “Is that what you’d
like
to do, Dominick?” she asked. I closed my eyes and saw, again, my morphine dream: saw and felt myself strangle my brother, cut him down from the tree, carry him toward this same damn river. “Answer my question, please,” she said. “Do you sometimes want to destroy your brother?”
“No,” I said, struggling to hold it together. “Yes.”
She waited. Watched me crumble.
“No! Yes! No! Yes! No! Yes!”
I must have wailed for a minute or more, and when I was finally finished—was spent, doubled over from my admission—she guided me away from the window and back to my chair. Had me do some deep breathing. Waited until I was so calm, I felt drowsy.
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said, could I begin to address my conflictedness about him. Free myself. Move forward.
“I
love
him,” I said. “He’s my
brother.
But all our lives, he’s made me feel so . . .”
“Go on. He’s made you feel . . . ?”
“Ashamed.
Humiliated.
Everybody whispering about what a fuckin’ freak he is. Turning him into a fuckin’ joke. . . . And half of you wants to
defend
him, you know? Punch their lights out when they say something. And the other half . . . the other half . . . just wants to run in the opposite direction. Get the hell away from him so you don’t catch what he’s got. So that none of it lands on
you.
”
“None of what?”
“The ridicule. The disease. . . . The
weakness.
”
She uncapped her pen and wrote something down. “So what you’re saying is that being Thomas’s brother makes you feel bifur-cated.”
“Bifurcated?” I looked up at her. “I couldn’t tell you, Doc. I don’t speak Phi Beta Kappa.”
“Divided, Dominick. Separated. Simultaneously sympathetic
and
repelled.”
I nodded, sighed. “And scared shitless. Don’t forget scared shitless.”
“Scared of what, please? Specifically.”
I got up again, went back to the window. “‘Oh, look, Martha! Over there—identical twins! Are you their mother? How in the world can you tell which is which?’ . . . You know what that was like, growing up?
Having
that
be your big claim to fame? Hearing your whole life that you were . . .
interchangeable
or something? And after he got sick, after he started to fold from it, I just waited . . . just
waited
. All during my twenties, my thirties—just
waiting
for it to get me, too. . . . And my mother: She
expected
it!
Expected
me to look out for him, keep myself strong so that I could keep
him
safe. Be his personal guardian or something. That was my
function
in life, you know? To keep my brother safe from Ray, from the tough kids at school . . . And even
now
. You know how panicky I get coming here, sometimes? Walking up those stairs of yours? Coming to see a
shrink
? Because
I’m
not supposed to need fix-
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ing; I’m the
strong
one—the lookout. After . . . after he hacked his hand off last October? When it was on the news every two seconds?
On the front page of the goddamned
New York Post
, for Christ’s sake?
And I . . . It’s
still
like that sometimes. I’ll be stopped someplace for gas or coffee or something. I’ll have my guard down, and then I’ll look over and catch someone staring. Just
staring
at me like . . .”
“Finish your thought, please.”
“Like
I’m
the weak one. Like I’m . . .”
“Like you’re Thomas.”
I nodded. “I don’t know. Maybe I ought to get it tattooed across my forehead or something: ‘I’m the
other
one.’ ”
She smiled sadly, jotted something down on her pad. “That would be an unnecessary gesture, in my opinion,” she said. “Despite your strong physical resemblance, your shared genetic coding, you and your brother are quite distinguishable.”
“Yeah,” I said. “I’m the one with
two
hands.”
“Well, yes, but that is not what I meant, my friend,” she said. “In some respects, you seem to me more like fraternal than identical twins.
So much so that, at one point—back when I was treating Thomas—I checked his medical records to make sure you had both been tested.”
“Tested for what?”
“To establish your monozygosis. And tests
had
been made, of course—two of them, if I recall. In terms of your genetic makeup, you and he
are
identical. Nevertheless, Dominick, you quite defy the hereditary odds. Not only in your fortunate avoidance of your brother’s psychosis, but in other ways as well.”
I nodded, poker-faced. On the inside, I was rejoicing.
“And, of course, you’ve worked very hard to cultivate and capital-ize upon those differences, too. Dedicated your
life
to the cause, I would say.
Exhausted
yourself with the effort. So what’s less clear to me is which of the differences between the two of you are geneti-cally based and which ones you’ve orchestrated.”
I let out a laugh. “Which ones we’ve
orchestrated
?”
“Not ‘we,’ Dominick. You, personally. You and your fear that what claimed your brother would claim you, too.”
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She stopped, wrote down something else. All that writing she’d been doing the last couple sessions was making me nervous. When she looked up again, I nodded down at her pad. “What are you working on there?”
On me, she said, my dilemma. My fears were becoming clearer and clearer to her. She had just then been listing them. Did I want to hear her list?
Unsure whether I wanted to or not, I said I did.
First and foremost, she said, I was afraid that the shadow of my brother’s schizophrenia would descend on me—of course I was. As an identical twin, how could I
not
fear it? Second, I seemed to be—and she would use my phrase, she said—“scared shitless” that the world would fail to recognize the distinctions between my brother and me—understand that we were two separate people. “And then there is your third apprehension,” she said, “the one which I am just now beginning to better understand.”
“Yeah?” I said. “What’s that?”
My third apprehension, as she saw it, was that there were, perhaps, fewer distinctions between my brother and me than I would like. Than I had acknowledged.
“What do you mean?” I said.
“Well, for instance, Thomas has a very gentle nature—a sensitivity toward others that is evident even now, sometimes, years and years into his psychotic existence. And from what you’ve told me of your shared childhood and adolescence, his gentleness—his sweetness—was even more pronounced before the onset of his illness. ‘He was the nicer one,’
you’ve told me many, many times. By which I take it you mean that he was the more sensitive, the more vulnerable, brother. Yes?”
“Yeah. . . . Yes.”
“Thomas was the twin who, in some respects, was
easier
to love?”
I looked away.
Dominick’s my little spider monkey, and you’re my cuddly little bunny
rabbit. Come sit down next to me, bunny rabbit. Come sit in Mama’s lap . . .
“Easier for
her
to love,” I said.
“Your mother? Yes?”
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I sat there, watching my right hand uncinch my wristwatch strap—cinch it again, uncinch it. When I looked up at Dr. Patel, she held my gaze.
“Let me ask you something,” she said. “Given your brother’s gentleness, his sensitivity, would it be fair to characterize Thomas as the more
feminine
of the two of you? Is that one of the distinctions you would make, Dominick?”
I shrugged. Felt myself tense at the word.
Go downstairs now,
Dominick. I made you a special snack. Your brother and I are just “playing nice.”
“Maybe,” I said.
“What is ‘maybe,’ please? Is that yes or no?”
“It’s
yes
!” I snapped. She was beginning to piss me off.
“Ah. And has that been the case all your lives? In childhood as well as adulthood? That you were the more masculine brother and Thomas was the more feminine?”
“Yes.”
“And was it that aspect of your brother’s nature, that quality perhaps, that
made
Thomas easier for your mother to love?”
I forced myself not to look away from her face. “What’s your point?” I said. “You saying he’s gay or something? That he’s schizophrenic because he’s queer?”
She smiled. She was not saying that—no, no. That had been Dr.
Freud’s hypothesis, more or less, but psychotherapists had gotten quite beyond that early theory and into a realm of much greater complexity.
“However, your immediate leap to that conclusion interests me, Dominick,” she said. “It might be worth our while to examine why you equate sensitivity—vulnerability—with homosexuality.”
I shook my head. “Oh, I get it,” I said. “You think he’s straight and
I’m
gay.” She waited for the wiseass smirk to leave my face.
“What I suspect,” she said, “is that you share some of your brother’s sweetness, his gentleness and vulnerability—his weakness, as you put it—and that that has frightened you. And that, perhaps, it is the constant denial of those qualities in yourself which has exhausted you.
Made you sick.”
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“
He’s
the sick one,” I reminded her. “I’m the
other
one.”
“Yes, yes,” she said. “The tough guy. The
not
-so-nice twin. Which doesn’t necessarily make you well, Dominick. Does it? Look around, my friend. Here you are, in therapy.”
She saw it over and over again in her male patients, she said—it could probably qualify as an
epidemic
among American men: this stubborn reluctance to embrace our wholeness—this stoic denial that we had come from our
mothers
as well as our fathers. It was sad, really—tragic. So wasteful of human lives, as our wars and drive-by shootings kept proving to us; all one had to do was turn on CNN or CBS News.
And yet, it was comic, too—the lengths most men went to to prove that they were “tough guys.” The gods must look down upon us, laughing and crying simultaneously. “My twelve-year-old grandson, Sava, stayed with me recently while his parents were away at a conference,” she said. “And all during his visit, he begged and begged me to take him to a movie called
Die Hard the Second
.”
“
Die Hard 2
,” I corrected her. “Bruce Willis.” It was kind of nice, actually: this time-out. Imagining her as some kid’s grandmother instead of my shrink.
“Yes, yes, that’s right,” she said. “ ‘Oh, Muti, please, please!’ he kept begging me. ‘I must see
Die Hard 2
or my life will be ruined!’