Read Embracing the Spirits: True Stories of My Encounters With the Other Side Online
Authors: Barbara Parks
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death whilst he was living, and in death, he is continuing to
fight it. It seems he is resisting the natural transition to the higher realms of the spirit world, preferring to inhabit the
rooms and hallways of the building he held so dear.
Also notable is the ghost of Room 24, the scene of a murder
in the 1940’s. As the story goes, a woman had arranged to meet her secret lover for a romantic rendezvous and was caught
in fla-grante
by her boyfriend. The enraged boyfriend hurled himself at the poor woman, throttling her until she was dead.
The unfortunate woman’s ghost is reported to linger in an
upstairs hallway, clad in a long, white nightgown. So palpable is the haunting, that Room 24 has been permanently locked
and hasn’t been rented out since.
An unsuspecting cleaning woman chanced upon the dis-
traught ghost early one morning whilst going about her duties.
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The cleaner was so disturbed by the encounter that she handed
in her resignation the next day. Current employees report that footsteps, apparitions and the clinking of glassware are com-monplace. Sometimes an errant glass spontaneously shatters;
it’s something they’ve just all learned to live with.
Whilst sitting in the hotel’s foyer sifting through the archives, I was struck by a case of synchronicity. My mobile phone rang; a young lady wanted to speak with me regarding the ghosts of
the Kalamunda Hotel. Katinka had worked at the hotel for five
years, and wanted to know whether I was interested in hearing
about what she had experienced during this time.
We met up later that day, and Katinka told me what she
knew about the hotel. From breaking glass, disembodied foot-
steps and life-like apparitions, it was obvious that she had no doubt that the hotel was haunted. The fax machine would
mysteriously turn itself on, buzzing and carrying on despite
there being no fax. Doors would mysteriously open and close,
the till would fly open by itself. The Kalamunda Hotel even
has an invisible toilet flusher!
One particularly solid apparition made an appearance in
the hotel bottle shop, prompting Katinka’s husband (who was
on duty at the time) to try and serve the strange woman he
believed to be a customer. The elderly woman was dressed in
period clothing, her grey hair pulled back into a severe bun.
She disappeared as soon as she was approached.
The old woman is widely believed to be the ghost of Miss
Jarrett, the daughter of the Irish Stockman who built the original hotel. It is reported that she lived in the attic until her death and refuses to move on. Others still report the ghost of an Irishman, so perhaps Miss Jarrett and her father are haunting the hotel together.
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Katinka also told me about a sad case involving a suicide in
the 1970’s. A young woman came to the hotel to see her boy-
friend, who was working his shift at the bar. Their relation-
ship was on the rocks, and she was hoping to speak to him and
patch things up. Contrary to salvaging the relationship as she had expected, her boyfriend informed her that it was all over, and that he was in fact seeing somebody else.
The distraught young woman made her way upstairs and
into the first room she could access. Consumed by heartbreak,
she impulsively took her own life. She was found hanging in
Room 1 the next day, a spur of the moment decision which
has kept her imprisoned in the hotel’s hallways ever since.
A day after hearing Katinka’s story, I received an email
which stopped me in my tracks. A lady named Jacqui wanted
to show me a photo she had taken a couple of years ago at the
Kalamunda Hotel. The photo was of a ghostly apparition; it
was the image of a young woman with long, blond hair. I was
sure it was the woman I had just been hearing about. Jacqui
also told me that her stay at the hotel had yielded some com-
pelling EVP’s. I was excited and intrigued.
We arranged to meet at the hotel the following week.
Although we were just meeting for a casual lunch, I knew it
would turn into so much more.
The photo was amazing. If it wasn’t for the fact that the
apparition didn’t have a lower half to her body (and the fact that Jacqui had assured me no other person was present at the
time) I would have thought that the photograph was of a liv-
ing person. Another giveaway was the ghost’s confused and
pained expression. Zooming in on her face was heart-break-
ing, it was obvious that the woman had been thrust into a
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was a knee jerk reaction which has now left her trapped in the lower-vibratory realms.
Jacqui handed me a thumb drive which I would listen to
later, but first it was time to introduce ourselves to the hotel’s resident ghosts.
We made our way up the wide, wooden stair case, snap-
ping away as we went. Although we managed to capture
numerous orbs in our photos, we were both in the mindset
that we wanted a more concrete connection with the hotel’s
ghosts. We didn’t need proof of their presence, we knew they
were there and we wanted to help.
Perhaps fortuitously, a smallish round table sat off to one
side of the upstairs bar area.
“That table would be perfect for a session of table tipping,”
I said. “Do you think we should see if anyone wants to make
contact?”
Jacqui smiled as she pushed away the surrounding chairs.
“Absolutely!” she said.
A moment later, we were carrying the table into the Dome
Room; the room in which we felt the ghosts most strongly.
“Right!” I said as we placed our hands on the table. “Let’s
see if anyone wants to come through …”
Jacqui and I spent the next half hour chatting to the young
girl in the photo, and to Mr Paddy Connelly himself. Although
Paddy was initially reluctant to communicate, he soon
warmed to us and was happy to join in. We ended up using an
upturned glass with a hastily scribbled Ouija board, through
which Paddy was able to identify himself and make contact.
His energy first came across as unwelcoming and angry, but
we soon reassured him that we were here to help and meant
him no harm. I feel confident that we eventually won him
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over, especially since we shared an amusing exchange at the
end of the afternoon.
“Paddy,” I said. “We are definitely coming back next week.
We’re going to help you and all the souls who are trapped here move on. Are you happy about that?”
YES
he slowly responded.
“I know you don’t have a great history with women, but
may I ask if there’s any chance you like me?”
Again, the glass dragged itself to
YES.
“What about Jacqui?” I asked. “Do you like her?”
YES!
“Wonderful!” I said. “We feel the same about you. And I
know you won the
Ugliest Man
competition, but let me just say that I’ve seen your photo and I don’t think you’re ugly at all!”
The light-hearted banter seemed to affect the atmosphere
in the room. The heaviness seemed to clear, and was replaced
by a sense of excitement and anticipation.
I asked Paddy if we could have a farewell photo before we
left, suggesting that he posed with Jacqui. At first glance, there was nothing to hint at Paddy’s presence, and it wasn’t until I downloaded the photo that afternoon that I began to laugh.
A radiant little orb had positioned itself right in the mid-
dle of Jacqui’s lips, prompting me to think that our new friend was giving her a farewell kiss. I couldn’t wait to get back to the hotel and help Paddy and his cohorts cross over.
Later that evening, I armed myself with my headphones
and settled down to listen to Jacqui’s EVP recording of the
hotel. Jacqui had stayed at the hotel with her sister two years earlier ; a girls’ ghost hunting trip scheduled to coincide with her sister’s visit from Ireland.
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Upon asking Paddy Connolly to appear as an orb in a farewell photo,
Jacqui and I were amused to see that he had placed himself
upon Jacqui’s lips!
A lump formed in my throat as I heard the imploring voices
pleading for release.
“Help us!” called a voice with a gentle Irish brogue, I won-
dered if it belonged to the Irish stockman. I was to hear him repeat his plea three times in the space of ten minutes.
“Stuck in!” cried a very young girl. Her voice was as clear
as a bell, as though she had positioned herself directly in front of the microphone to ensure her voice came through.
And then, more ominously, a rough, angry voice belted
through my headphones.
“Shut the door!” it hissed.
Jacqui told me earlier that she thought the angry voice
belonged to Paddy, and that he seemed to dominate the rest of
the hotel’s ghosts. Perhaps he still thought he owned the hotel and had authority over its occupants.
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“He’s keeping them in the hotel to control them,” Jacqui
said. “He doesn’t want to cross over, so he doesn’t want them
to either. They’re all trapped. I think he got angry when he
realised the Irishman and the little girl were trying to communicate with us.”
The sinister, guttural voice didn’t seem to gel with the
spirit we had been speaking with that afternoon, but it was
possible that Jacqui was right. And if she was, I hoped that by showing Paddy love and compassion, we had gone some way
towards convincing him that it was indeed time to move on.
We told him that sixty six years of lingering within the hotel’s walls as a ghost was quite long enough, and that love, light and happiness awaited him on the other side.
We assured him that crossing over didn’t mean he’d have
to leave his hotel forever, and that he’d still be able to call in whenever he saw fit.
“There’s so much more to experience.” I said. “You all
deserve to move on!”
Since I had scheduled three spirit contact evenings at the
hotel in the coming weeks, I felt confident that Jacqui, my sitters and I would be able to help the ghosts move on. Espe-
cially since in the space of an afternoon, we had been able to connect with Paddy and appreciate the man he once was; a
scared, vulnerable man who made mistakes in life but did not
deserve to be eternally punished. His self-imposed exile was
most probably borne from guilt and fear, a fear that I would
try my hardest to eradicate.
I couldn’t wait for the following week, and I hoped that the
Kalamunda Hotel’s ghosts felt the same. Whether he liked it
or not, Paddy was stuck with me. I was coming back with rein-
forcements to see the job through.
A week before the Kalamunda Hotel investigation, I decided
that it was time I found myself a Ouija Board. Since I was still struggling to develop my clairaudience, I was hoping to use
the board to facilitate clearer communication with the hotel’s ghosts. I had long resisted taking this step, as I was well-versed in the board’s inherent dangers. There are countless horror stories involving inexperienced Ouija use, whereby lower vibrational
entities have seized upon the opportunity to interact with the living. Doors to other dimensions have been indiscriminately
opened, thereby creating a portal which allows both positive
and negative energies to come through.
I reasoned that my sessions of table tipping (which I was
now doing on a regular basis) were really no different to working with a Ouija Board. Both involved inviting disembodied
entities to manifest, whether it be by moving the table or controlling the glass. I have always been mindful of spiritual protection, and spend a great deal of time preparing for spirit
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contact sessions beforehand. I raise my vibration with music,
meditation and prayer, and white light the table before I begin.
I also ask that my spirit guide and those of my sitters draw
in close and act as gate keepers, ensuring that no nasty, low-
vibrational energies can get through. Burning a white candle is also a good idea, as it’s believed to attract positive energy and repel negativity.
As such, I have only had positive and uplifting experiences
with the table. I felt confident that approaching the Ouija