Authors: Chang-Rae Lee
Tags: #Psychological, #Middle Class Men, #Psychological Fiction, #Parent and Adult Child, #Middle Aged Men, #Long Island (N.Y.), #General, #Literary, #Fathers and Daughters, #Suburban Life, #Middle-Aged Men, #Fiction, #Domestic Fiction, #Air Pilots
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sturdy in her crème-colored cotton tank top. As she sits coolly at the wheel of my Impala wearing the Jackie 0 sunglasses, I can't help but wonder how close the two of them might be, she and Daisy, how they'd be plotting the family milestones, how, if I were a very lucky man, they'd be endlessly teasing me and causing me troubles and generally giving me a constant run of heartbreak.
"I'm glad to hear that from you, Jerry," Theresa says. "I was discussing it with Paul last night. About me."
"You?"
"Of course me. We decided that if things got horrific and the baby was already out and there was nothing left but blind faith, that he would help me take the necessary measures."
"Necessary measures? What the hell are you talking about?"
"What we're talking about."
"I thought we were talking about our
future."
"Exactly," she says. "I don't want Paul and you and maybe Jack, if he even cares, to carry me beyond what's reasonable. I'm not going to go for anything heroic here. I'm not interested in lingering. Besides, I think it's appalling, the level of resources our society puts toward sustaining life, no matter the costs or quality."
"I don't care," I say, doing my best to switch gears unnoticed.
"I think it's noble."
"Noble? It's craven and egotistical. This when thousands of children are born each day into miserable conditions, when our public schools are crumbling, when the environment is threatened at every turn. Really, it's ridiculous, how antideath our society is."
"Look, honey, I don't know what you want me to say, but I'm definitely antideath. Especially yours."
"You may think that now. But if I were down to eighty A L O F T
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pounds and I couldn't hear or see, and the pain were so great I couldn't stop moaning, all of it costing you and everyone else two thousand dollars a day, would you want me to endure every last breath?"
"I don't like talking about this."
"You're a big boy, Jerry."
"Okay. All right, then. I think you deserve your turn."
"My
turn?
You think Pop is enjoying his turn?"
"You're missing my point," I tell her. "Pop is where he is because there's no better choice. I put him there for his own good but he's not locked up. He doesn't like Ivy Acres, but in fact he doesn't want to live with me or Jack or anybody else. He can walk out anytime. What he really wants is his old life back, which he can't have. So he's doing what everybody does, which is just to ride it out for the sake of his family, so Jack and his kids can go over there and sit with him for an hour and fiddle with the bed controls and watch
The Simpsons."
"It
doesn't matter that nobody's really enjoying themselves?"
"Nope. It's just part of what we have to do, and Pop's job now is to be Pop-as-is. I'm not talking -about heroics here, because there's no way that I would want you to suffer. But if things don't go so well I hope you don't do something sudden. There's a certain natural run to these things and I think we'll all know if it's really time. But I don't think it truly ever is."
"Don't you think Mom did something
sudden?"
Theresa says, the scantest edge in her tone.
"Of course not. She didn't commit suicide."
"But it wasn't purely an accident either, right? If she hadn't been so miserably unhappy, maybe she'd have been more careful."
"Could be," I say, focusing on the
miserably unhappy,
not so much the truth of it but the fact of Theresa, as a young girl,
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knowing her mother in such unequivocal terms. This not even getting into all her possible views on my contributions to that unhappiness, the broad intense feelings probably swamping her back then and the thousands of chilly extrapolations she's made since, all of which, coming from her, are liable to scare me straight unto death.
"I've been thinking, Jerry," she says, looking serious now. "I want to ask you to promise something."
"Whatever you say."
"I want you to promise you'll take care of Paul and the baby."
"Theresa .. ."
"And when I say Paul, I mean even if the baby isn't around."
"Jesus, I don't like you talking like this."
"I mean it. I want you to look after him. Maybe he can stay at the house with you a little while. My life insurance from the college is lame and would only hold him for six months, tops.
He won't ask his parents for a dime."
"Would he ask me?"
"No, but if you offered he might accept your help. He's too messed up by what his parents think of his career choice to ask them for anything."
"Good thing he doesn't care what I think."
"It is," Theresa says. "Paul's an excellent person and a fine writer but he's sometimes too much of a good boy. He has this need to please them and by extension most everybody else, which is okay day to day but in the long run is going to get him into -trouble. I haven't yet said anything to him but I think it's become a problem as he's gotten older, especially with his work.
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things, too just—like he's afraid or unwilling to disappoint or offend. A n artist can't be averse to being disagreeable, even tyrannical."
"Hey, I like that Paul is nice to me."
"And he always will be. But you don't quite make the father-mentor-master pantheon for him, if you don't mind my saying.
Paul can just hang out with you, exemplify nothing extraordi-nary or special, which is why I think you're good for him. He can be one of the guys with you, Jerry, a part of the wider male world."
"Why am I not feeling so complimented?"
"Oh, relax. All I'm saying is that he'd be most comfortable with you, in a way he certainly couldn't be comfortable with his father or mother or even, for that matter, a lot of our friends and colleagues back at the college. Sometimes I think that if I weren't around they'd all prove too strong for him, overwhelm him, and he'd end up just sitting there at his desk doodling in the margins."
"It's a good thing Jerry Battle is just filler."
"But you're fine filler, Jerry. You're always just there, taking it in. Like tofu in soup."
"Wonderful."
"It is. I always thought you were just right, especially as a dad. Maybe not for Jack but for me. You were never in the least pushy or overbearing, even when I was getting totally out of hand."
"When was that?"
"You know, that one summer, my biker-slut period. When I basically ran away and you and Jack had to drive out to Sturgis and bring me back. You didn't even yell at me. You were pissed, but only because you'd just lost your Chevron card. Jack was the
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one who was genuinely angry, about having to miss a few lacrosse matches."
"We stopped at the Corn Palace, didn't we? You and I taste-tested BLTs and chocolate milkshakes, state by state."
"See? You were enjoying yourself."
"I guess so," I say, though I'm not as tickled by the memory as I'm making it sound. For despite the obvious satisfaction I might have from hearing that my ever-skeptical daughter has generally approved of my parenting style, the notion of being Daddy Tofu seriously mitigates any lasting appeal. And the now insistent implication—something Theresa always seems to evoke for me—is not that Rita might view my years of boyfriending in a similar metaphorical light (which she no doubt does), or that there might be anything I can do to reform her perspective (save the usual dumb and desperate measures, like asking her, now, after all these years, and when she's no longer mine, to marry me), but rather that I should be addressing right now, posthaste, chop-chop, what I should not have let slide for hours much less weeks, which is to demand to know what the hell we're (not) talking about, to be part of what's going on with her, and how we are to proceed.
To not, yet again, profess my desire to decline, which I so wish to.
So I say, with as much resoluteness as I can muster, "Listen.
The question isn't about me and it's not about Paul. You can be certain I'll keep an eye on him. I'll do whatever it takes. He can live with me as long as he can bear. But what I'm having great difficulty with is that you're not including me."
"I'm saving you the trouble. Remember, Jerry, you don't like trouble?"
"Damrnit, Theresa! This isn't
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with Rita. At this point, trouble is still what I have with Pop, which I suppose I should be grateful for. But this is way past that. Let me tell you, I appreciate that you're trying to make this a nice extended summer visit to your dad, where we eat like gourmands and go to the movies at night and plan a modest little wedding for you. But I can't just allow myself to just sit by any longer, if that's what you're hoping for."
"I'm not hoping for anything," she answers, without tenor.
"But fine. What do you want to be included in?"
"I don't know yeti You have to tell me!"
"Okay," she says, staring me right in the eye. "Do you want to be included in the fact that my red blood cell count is falling like crazy right now? Or that my doctor is warning me that my placenta might be seriously weakened? Or do you want to be included in my morning sickness ritual, which is to vomit right before and after breakfast, this morning's being bloody for the first time?"
"Bloody? What does that mean?"
"I don't really know, Jerry."
"Shouldn't you call your doctor?"
"I don't want to. We're seeing her next week anyway."
"Call her now," I say, handing her my cell phone. "I'll drive you tomorrow."
"No."
"What do you mean, no?"
"It'll just give her more reason to bring up termination, which I don't want to hear about anymore."
"Maybe you should hear it."
"Hey, Jerry, just because you're included doesn't mean you have a say."
"I think I do."
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"I don't see why."
"I'm your father, Theresa. That still means something."
"Doesn't matter. Paul is mad all the time now, but he's heed-ing me, so you should, too."
"We don't have to be quiet about it."
"Sure. And
we
don't have to stay with you any longer, either."
We both shut up for a second, not a little surprised at how quickly things can reach an uncomfortable limit, which often happens when you start playing chicken with a loved one. My first (obtuse) impulse is to just say hell with this and drive over to the field and crank up ol'
Donnie,
fly her as high as I can get her. But I can't help but marvel at my daughter's hissy don't-tread-on-me attitude, courtesy of Daisy, and then wonder, too, in a flash that scares and deflates me, how bad the situation might really be, for her to be so darn immovable. She's hands down—along with Jack the very best thing I've brought about in my life, the true-to-life sentiment of which I trust and hope is what every half-decent person thinks when he or she becomes a parent. But the slight twist here is that I am pretty sure Theresa has always known this to be the case as well, not because she's particularly high on herself, but from what has been, I suppose, my lifelong demonstration of readily accepting whatever's on offer, which I'm sure hasn't escaped her notice.
From her angle, I could see, I haven't been much of a producer or founder, nothing at all like Pop, or millions of other guys in and between our generations, rather just caretaking what I've been left and/or given, and consuming my fair share of the bright and new, and shirking almost all civic duties save paying the property taxes and sorting the recycling, basically steering clear of
trouble,
the mode of which undoubtedly places me right in the vast dawdling heart of our unturbulent plurality A L O F T
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but does me little good now, when I need to be exerting a little tough love back.
But then Theresa says first, "I'm sorry, Jerry. I can be such an ornery fucking bitch."
"Don't you say that," I tell her, as firm as I've ever been.
"You're Theresa Battle, and you should be like nobody else, and you're perfectly great as you are."
"You think so?"
"I've never not."
She leans over and gives me a quick kiss on the cheek, stamp-like and tiny the way it felt when she was a kid, before Daisy died, and she would kiss me all the time.
"You know you're a pretty silly Mr. Empowerment."
"I don't care. If you don't."
"Of course not. Hey, are you going to finish your milkshake?"
"Go ahead."
More customers have pulled in, enough so that the assistant manager steps out near the road and waves his hands, to get his partner to come back. The kid finally does, swerving in neatly right next to us. He gives me the keys, trying to thank me but unable to say anything but an awestruck
fuckin' hog
over and over again, and the thought occurs to me that I should just give the damn car to these two soft-serve-for-brains, fodder for a nice feature on the local news,
Old dude just gave us the keys!,
they'd be saying, but they'd probably kill themselves in it or worse hurt somebody else like a pregnant sick young woman out for a cone.
But they're decent enough, because as we're pulling out the younger one sprints to Theresa's car and hands her another large shake for the road.
As we near Richie's place there's a discernible hush, a lurking
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prosperity, the oaks and maples ascendant. The only sounds are the throaty low-gear gurgles of the Ferrari, and I still can't help but make the back tires squeal as I sling and lurch around these generous mansion-scale streets. Theresa, trailing half a block behind, gently rudders the old boat down the lanes. I've called Richie's house but only the machine answered and I didn't leave a message, and anyway I'm thinking it's best if I just park the car out on the semicircular driveway and drop the keys through the mail slot, with not even a note. Let Richie figure it out.