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Later, I stood behind the set, waiting to be introduced, waiting with the floor team, having some last-minute make-up administered, feeling like one of the best-dressed cancer patients in Ireland but also underdressed for the country's biggest TV show, thinking, ‘Look down ... look down' when my name is announced and the band starts up and I have to negotiate all of those steps that every guest on
The Late Late Show
fears and targets with equal measure.

Life, officially, has been no fun since I was diagnosed on 9 September, 2010, which, if you like, has become my own personal 9/11, even though nobody has died. Yet. I'm not planning to die either.

For the first few hours, after diagnosis, I was convinced I was a goner. When I broke the news of my ‘big trouble' to my wife and daughter, and my mother and sisters, I was fairly sure that I was marked down, by whomever marks down such things, to be done and dusted. Small things, during those first few days, struck me as forcibly as a medium-sized truck. As my youngest son, Stephen, came through the front door from school that first Friday afternoon, I felt immediately sad for myself, and for myself more than Stephen I have to admit, and firmly believed that such happy occasions as seeing his theatrical arrival home were already counting down.

My wife and daughter, supportively, like two happy tourist guides in the land of ‘the ill' ask me, regularly, when am I next going to smile?

That always surprises me.

I think I am smiling most of the time. I'm actually quite happy and, definitely, not unhappy. And I'm happiest of all with a long glass filled with iced water. My favourite drink in the whole wide world is no longer the fine Bordeaux wine I had been lashing into during the months of July and August with the abandon of a mad, rosy-nosed Frenchman with his own private cellar beneath his kitchen floor.

Iced water, long glass after long glass of it in the eveningtime, is fulfilling and satisfying in a peculiarly nourishing way. And, I can genuinely catch more than a glimpse into the life of some poor wretch stranded on a desert island without any luxuries – and understand perfectly well how good, how breathtakingly cutting, a clean glass of water would be to such a man or woman on a hot, dry, desert island afternoon.

My senses are alive, and residing at a higher storey than I ever imagined existed. And not just my taste. My hearing has become intensely tuned to every slammed door in my home, every shout or scream, every X-Box game playing, every squeak from the television set. I have never lived a noisier life. And then there are my nostrils. These days I would fancy my chances in out-sniffing the most celebrated sniffer dog in Dublin airport. I smell everything. And everything smells stronger, and smells mostly repugnant, especially smells that are expensive to buy, like, for instance, big-brand perfume or some of the fancier liquid soaps in bathrooms. Within a few weeks of treatment, liquid soap had become my No. 1 enemy. It turns my stomach, doubles my nausea, and lingers on my fingers and the backs of my hands for hours and hours.

The disastrous state of this country's economy mostly uninterests me. I read only a little of the daily announcements telling me that Ireland is finished. I avoid all commentary on television and radio, and have done so since the earliest days of my diagnosis, and I understand fully why my dentist has the radio in his surgery tuned to a German station all through the day. But rather than switching to a foreign language for a reprieve from the life of this nation, I have actually switched the sound down on Ireland 2010 and have chosen to watch our politicians and bankers and businessmen moving around, and coming and going, like characters from a silent movie at the beginning of the last century.

In my old business life, I had bumped into almost all of these characters. I made presentations and discussed my business plans with almost all of them. With Sean FitzPatrick (and also David Drumm, whose Anglo Irish Bank business card I still have somewhere in my mini skyscraper of business cards, and which some day I might auction on eBay) and with Michael Fingleton and with Denis O'Brien. And, with my favourite rich man of them all, Dermot Desmond.

While Michael O'Leary still gets ten out of ten for returning my phone call one afternoon, and spending ten minutes informing me that he was not going to do business with me and was not going to give me any money, and then asking me what I could do for him that would not cost him a penny, Dermot Desmond got higher marks from me for his performance one afternoon when four of us rode the elevator to his boardroom in his offices in the IFSC, which were pristine, luxurious, and which had a library overhead and a telescope on a tripod, aimed at the southside of the city, on the balcony behind us.

When Dermot entered he sat at the top of the table. I don't remember him saying anything, but I do remember us starting to talk and, quickly, with more animation and passion than was probably necessary, racing through our presentation and our wonderful plans to make millions and millions of euros ... and stopping. Dermot didn't say anything. He sat there looking at us, ever so slightly interested, definitely bemused, but said nothing. And, so, we started again, the four of us, supporting one another, interrupting one another, filling any space that needed to be filled and – almost out of breath – stopping. And Dermot, still, didn't say anything. We needed to stop talking, but we couldn't. We needed to say goodbye to him, we needed to escape, but he was in no hurry to lift himself out of his chair. He eventually did stand, and invited us to leave, without having asked one single question in the forty-five minutes that had just passed.

Dermot Desmond, and O'Leary, together, with one or two others, might actually be capable of winning the confidence and the complete attention of a great many people living in this country, and also winning the support of whatever number of people out there are watching this country lose all confidence in itself. With Ireland nearly finished off, there's nothing to be lost from asking them to double-check whether the country really is at death's door or not.

The battle in my body, which previously I have likened to some battle in Tolkien's Middle Earth, has ceased. That's what I have been told. Last week, I was informed by my oncologist that the result of my latest Pet scan was negative, and that technically there were no more evil creatures hard at work in my neck, or hiding out somewhere else in my lymphatic system for that matter.

It was news I expected. I had always believed that I was doubly lucky – in having my cancer diagnosed early and in having my treatment commenced with such speed and professionalism. Add into that the prayers that people who pray have been offering up for me, and the surprising, humbling supply of good wishes and heartfelt support that has been directed my way by old-fashioned post, and also, hard and fast, by email.

I, purposely, have not replied to these people, or thanked anyone personally, believing that my chemotherapy and radiotherapy should be completed, and finished with, before being energetic with my thank yous.

I celebrated very briefly with a long glass of iced water the evening I was told this news. The celebrations will remain on ice. My daily radiotherapy treatment in St Luke's continues to Christmas Eve, and five days each week I am fitted with a plastic mask that fits over my head and neck, and which reminds me that, literally, helmets and shields should not be lowered just yet. I'm told I'm winning. I'm told there's a 10 per cent chance, only, of the cancer returning – once again, that same, sinister Mr 10 per cent.

There will be more tests in January. There will be three-monthly check-ups all through 2011. For the next five years, I am officially informed, we are not going to turn our backs on our opponent.

I only believed for a short period of time that I was going to die of cancer, and for the last couple of months I have been sure that I will not. I have always believed that, like my father, my heart will get me in the end. I will be better next year, and by the end of 2011 I am informed that, medically speaking, I will be healthy and energetic and no longer good for nothing. And then, potentially, it will be time to start worrying again about getting ill, and dying.

In the early days and weeks, after joining ‘the ill', I accepted that this was how it was going to end. That may sound a bit dramatic, but when I sat on the side of the bed in my cubicle in the Hermitage Clinic, naked beneath a blue paper gown, and waited there, alone, for an hour or more, the one thought in my head (which, surprisingly, was not upsetting me as much as it should have been) was: ‘This is how it is going to end.'

For a while, after being diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, I didn't worry any more about getting ill. I stopped thinking about my heart, and my high cholesterol, and what might happen, when and how, without even a word of warning. For a little while, I was free of all my foolish worries.

I am tired and weary. The days are moving slowly. Christmas Eve appears to be many months away still. I am a free man, free of cancer, but I have just popped three more anti-sickness pills, I have a blanket over my shoulders as I write, and the smells coming from downstairs in my home, where my wife has prepared a magnificent evening meal for us all, are intriguing and enticing, and at the same time mildly revolting. I only need to shave every three or fours days, and even then it takes three or four seconds rather than three or four minutes with an electric razor. I am bald. I am wearing my cancer clothes. I'm still, officially, a member of a quietly spoken, hugely dignified, calm and strangely contented tribe called ‘the ill'.

I'm in no hurry to leave camp.

In its own good time.

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EATURES

It was more like a lesson in lingo for lawyers and judge alike, but the bizarre case of the disappearing Prince ended in settlement with one happy looking cat.

28 February 2010

T
here was no show from the little guy last week. For the second time, the artist once again known as Prince failed to turn up for an Irish audience. In 2008, a concert appearance he was due to give at Croke Park was cancelled at short notice. Last week, the fallout from that incident was played out in the High Court. The concert promoter, Denis Desmond's MCD, sued Prince for €1.7 million, but once again the little guy was nowhere to be seen.

All week in the Four Courts, we awaited his arrival. Perhaps he would amble in wearing a raspberry beret, the kind you find in a second hand store. But he didn't, and it was his loss, because he would have witnessed an interesting collision of cultures, between the music business, California-style, and the Irish legal system, as conducted in the historic setting of the Round Hall of the Four Courts.

At a time when the courts are filled with human misery and disappearing fortunes, a good old fashioned bunfight between multimillionaires was just what the doctor ordered.

Desmond's outfit sued Prince for the lolly, but Prince claims the booking agent, Los Angeles-based WMEE, was not authorised to book the gig for him, so it was liable. As a result, WMEE was attached to proceedings, even though Desmond has no beef with the agency.