D
AISY AND I SIT
by the pile of board books in the clinic. Daisy is afraid.
“What will he say about the medicines, Mum? Will he tell me off?”
“Of course he won’t. You really tried to take them,”
But now we’re here, waiting to see him, I wish we’d tried again.
It’s clear but cold. Through the glass doors, the playground is full of light, so the colors of the plastic toys look pallid,
faded. There’s no one on the PlayStation, but Daisy isn’t interested today,
The nurse with the gentle face is weighing a teenage girl, saying how much weight she’s put on and how fantastic this is.
Everyone glows — the nurse, the girl, the mother. I feel so envious of them.
“I wish Dad would come,” says Daisy.
“Me too.”
Richard is meant to be joining us, coming from a meeting somewhere in Surrey. I look at my watch: Our appointment is in two
minutes. The clinic door bangs back and we look up, full of hope. It’s a woman with a frayed face who’s pushing a child in
a buggy.
And then Dr. McGuire comes to his door and Daisy’s name is called and we have to go in.
Some X rays are displayed with the light behind them.
“I think those are your legs,” I say to Daisy.
“Come and have a look,” says Dr. McGuire. She goes to stand beside him. Half of his face is bright and half in shadow; his
hair is whitened, his profile sharp in the light. He names the bones for her. Daisy smiles, enjoying this.
“There’s no arthritis. Your legs are fine,” he says. He points to another X ray. “And this one is the barium meal,” he says.
“Now, this shows how your stomach contents come back up the esophagus. What it doesn’t tell us, though, is why that should
be happening.”
He switches off the light behind the X rays.
She comes to sit beside me on the sofa; he’s in an up-right chair at his desk. Behind him there’s the window, and you can
see out over the hospital, the faceless windows of the wards, their bedheads and floral curtains, and the stains of damp on
the concrete.
“So, Daisy, how are you now?”
“All right,” she says.
This time I know I mustn’t interrupt.
“Now, I sent you home with some medicines,” he says. “How did you get on with those?”
She turns to me, I can feel her leg shaking a little against me. She doesn’t say anything. I put my arm around her.
I wish Richard were here; I long for him to be here, to handle this for us.
“I’m afraid she didn’t manage to take them,” I tell him.
“Most children of eight can take medicines,” he says.
“But I think it’s part of her illness,” I say. “It’s because she feels so sick.”
“She managed to swallow the barium,” he says.
“Yes, in the end. Though they were about to give up. But barium’s easier, isn’t it? It kind of coats your throat; it doesn’t
have a bitter taste.…”
He’s writing in her folder. He doesn’t look at me.
The door bursts open and Richard comes in. Relief washes through me,
“Sorry I’m late.” His face is flushed and his voice is loud: He’s been rushing and breathing heavily. “I got stuck in this
massive tail-back. It’s one of those days when the system”seizes up.”
“Don’t worry, Mr. Lydgate,” says Dr. McGuire. “I’m grateful to you for making the effort. Too many fathers simply wouldn’t
bother.”
Richard sits beside us. I sense his warmth, his solidity; the opulent smell of his aftershave wraps round me. I’m so glad
he is here.
“Now, what have I missed?” he asks.
He’s brisk but genial; he’s brought a kind of urgency, a sense of the busy adult world, in with him, Briefly, I’m seized by
an envy I rarely feel: I long for a proper job, for an office like Richard’s, for those crisp tailored suits that people wear
for meetings, and a glamorous PA to keep you organized, and phones all ringing at once, and being taken seriously.
Dr. McGuire explains about the X rays. Richard stretches out his legs and reaches an arm along the back of the sofa.
“And we also have the results of your blood tests, Daisy,” says Dr. McGuire. “And the good news is that everything is absolutely
normal. Except the test for allergy. That’s still is a bit on the high side, but I’m sure it’s nothing to worry about.”
I ask if it shows what she’s allergic to.
He shakes his head. “It doesn’t test for particular foods. “We can’t do that, unfortunately.”
“Perhaps we should try one of those diets,” I say. “When you leave out different things.” I don’t tell him about the diet
we’ve tried: I can too vividly imagine what he’d think of Helmut Wolf.
He shrugs. “Those diets can be very tedious,” he says. “Children generally know what’s good for them. We have to trust our
children.”
Warring ideas clash in my mind. What if Helmut Wolf was right? Yet the diet was so difficult. But if she’s so allergic, perhaps
we should try it again? I don’t know whom to believe now.
There’s a little silence. I hear a baby crying on the other side of the door — a strange, disturbing cry, too rhythmic, not
quite natural. I think how all these tests have been done, yet we’re no further on.
“So what happens now?” I ask. “We still don’t know what’s wrong.”
“That’s what we need to talk about,” he says. “Whether we ought to be taking a different route. But for now, she really must
take her medicines.”
“But she can’t.…”
He holds his hand up, silencing me: that gesture I hate.
“I know your position on this, Mrs. Lydgate,” he says. “You’ve made that abundantly clear. In fact I’m sure she can take them.
But it’s so important to have the right attitude. Sometimes parents can convey a kind of uncertainty to a child, and children
pick up on that. Children are very sensitive to what their parents are thinking, Daisy, you’ll promise me you’ll take your
medicine, won’t you?”
She nods, eager to please.
“And now,Daisy,” he says, “would you mind leaving us for a moment? I’d like to speak to your mum and dad on their own.”
I take her hand and we go back to the waiting room. I find her a worn copy of
The Worst Witch
, a book she loved when she was younger. She opens it at random.
“Is he going to talk about the medicine, Mum?”
“Don’t worry, sweetheart. It’s not your fault,” I tell her.
In the consulting room, Richard and Dr. McGuire are talking amiably together, about the M25, and how the government really
will have to get to grips with our antediluvian transport system. As I sit, they stop smiling.
“Right, then,” says Dr. McGuire. He leans back in his chair, his fingertips touched together. A new seriousness darkens his
face. “Do you have anything else you want to tell me?”
I shake my head.
He doesn’t respond; he’s waiting,
“Not really,” I say. “No. Nothing else.”
The silence between us is tense, charged. I know what he’s expecting, what he’s wanting. She’s being bullied at school.… There
was this pedophile. … To be honest, my husband and I do have our difficulties, Doctor.… But there’s nothing to say. The silence
stretches on, constraining me.
“Well, I don’t think it’s psychological, if that’s what you mean,” I tell him.
“I think it is,” he says.
I feel a hot spurt of fury. “How can it be? She’s got lots of friends, and no one’s died or anything. There’s nothing to bring
this on.”
“Children see things differently,” he says. “Something that seems unimportant to an adult can seem major to a child.”
“But there isn’t anything. It started when she got flu. And she was always such a happy child.”
“She’s also a child who’s quite old enough to speak for herself,” he says. His pale eyes flick across my face. “And somehow
you won’t let her. When she tries to tell me something, you keep on interrupting.”
Richard doesn’t protest. Why doesn’t he intervene, defend me? I turn to him, but I can’t read his expression — he’s looking
at Dr. McGuire.
“Daisy was nervous about coming,” I say. “I could feel her shaking. Because she hadn’t taken the medicine. Sometimes you have
to speak for your child: It’s an intimidating situation for a child.”
“Intimidating?” he says. “I really think that’s overstating the case. In my experience, most children don’t find it remotely
alarming to come here. They know about hospitals; they watch
Casualty
. Today’s children are very sophisticated, Mrs. Lydgate.”
I shake my head. “I just can’t accept that her illness has a psychological cause.”
He leans toward me: His face is sharp, intense.
“I’m very struck by the fact that you seem so reluctant to consider that Daisy’s problem might have a psychological explanation.
This convinces me that this is something we have to look at,” he says.
I’m reaching around for things to defend ourselves with, to defend Daisy.
“But we’re a perfectly normal family. Her older sister’s never had anything wrong. She’s scarcely ever had a day off school.”
“She has an older sister?” He looks at the notes, frowns. “According to what we have here, Daisy is your first child.”
“Catriona means Sinead,” says Richard. “My daughter by my first wife.”
“Ah,” says Dr. McGuire. “I understand.”
His eyes glitter. He makes a note in the file.
“This happened before,” I tell him. “It happened at the surgery. Daisy was hardly eating, and the doctor said it was because
she was unhappy and wouldn’t have done any tests at all if I hadn’t insisted.” I’m trying to explain, but anger sharpens my
voice. I know how he sees me: a harridan, a shrill, insistent woman. “If people decide she’s ill because she’s worried about
something, they stop trying to find what’s wrong, and that panics me.”
“But you see,” he says, “you seem so sure about this, and you get so cross when I suggest it’s psychological, and that makes
me think it is.”
There’s an image in my head, vivid, exact. I walk across the floor to him, see him flinch away from me, hear the crack of
my fist on his face,
Richard senses this, perhaps. He puts his hand on my arm.
“Darling, don’t get too upset. Dr. McGuire’s just trying to cover all the bases. I mean, don’t you think we ought to give
every suggestion serious consideration? For Daisy’s sake,” he says.
My throat is tight: I can’t speak.
“The fact is, this illness of Daisy’s is really very perplexing,” says Richard. “He doesn’t mean she’s making it up.” He turns
to Dr. McGuire. “You don’t mean that, do you?” he says.
“Not at all,” says Dr. McGuire.
“Do you have any theory?” Richard asks. “Anything in mind that might be causing Daisy’s illness?”
“Obviously, we need to investigate properly.” He’s looking at Richard again. “I’m fortunate to work very closely with an excellent
psychiatrist. I’m sure you’ll find her extremely approachable.…”
Panic rises in me like nausea.
“No.” My voice is too loud for the room. “I just don’t see that it’s right. I don’t see that it’s necessary,”
“You see?” He’s speaking quite mildly, as though to a recalcitrant child. “You’re doing it again. You’re interrupting.”
I
T’S MUFTI DAY
at Sinead’s school, in aid of science textbooks, and she has a flower scrunchie in her hair. But her forehead is creased
in a frown as she packs her bag.
“What’s wrong?”
“I’ve got a French test,” she says.
“You’ll be all right,” I tell her. “I know you will. French is your thing.”
“No, I won’t. It’s Miss Premenstrual Johns.”
“But you’re brilliant at French, Sinead.”
She pushes a hand through her dark, abundant hair. Her brown eyes harden as she looks at me.
“I wanted you to test me on my verbs,” she says. “But you were so stressed last night — I thought you’d be cross if I asked.”
Penitence washes through me.
“I’m sorry, my love. I’m always so busy with Daisy.”
“Yes, you are,” she says. There’s a splinter of bitterness in her voice that’s new to me.
She opens the door and cold air rushes in. Her face is set. She goes without saying good-bye.
Daisy is dressed for school. She looks fragile, shrunken inside the formal clothes, and there are pastel-pencil smudges round
her eyes. She hasn’t eaten anything.
I pack her bag for her.
“You have to take in your matchbox today, remember? For the sponsorship thing. They’re collecting them in. You don’t want
to miss that, do you?”
“I don’t care.”
“But you worked so hard on it.”
Ridiculously, this matters terribly to me — that she is part of this charming, quixotic project, just like the other children.
The matchbox is on the dresser. I open it up for her, to see where all the things we have collected nestle together — the
paper clip, the broken-off lead from a pencil, the sunflower seed, the feather, gray as a pearl, that we found on the grass
at Kew — this tiny box of clustered treasures.
“Look. Doesn’t that look wonderful?”
“I don’t care,” she says again.
There’s a vase of yellow tulips on the table, their color rich as butter. They’re starting to ease apart, to sag a little:
A single petal has fallen. I pick it up. It’s firm, cool, soft as vellum. I tuck it on top and close the matchbox up. She
shrugs and turns away.
We go out to the car. There’s wind and a white sky and white blossoms blowing. We drive slowly to school through the cold,
pale day. The traffic is heavy; the drivers have tense, set faces. A man in a lorry leans out, his face contorted with rage,
and swears at another driver who won’t give him room.
Daisy is silent, but her unhappiness is like a physical presence, pressing down on me, as though it’s my own feeling.
“Maybe you’ll feel better once you’re there, and you see Megan and hand in your matchbox and everything.” My voice is bright,
brittle.
She says nothing.
I look warily in the rearview mirror. I see that she is crying.
“Sweetheart, you’ll be all right.”
“Why does this have to happen to me?” she says.
“Sometimes bad things happen to people, they just do. It’s not for any reason.”