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Authors: Jack Canfield
Then I made the quilt.
I must have been in my Suzy Homemaker stage of motherhood, before career responsibilities later fast-tracked our lives. That one lazy summer—the same summer when we made dandelion wine and learned to waterski on canoe paddles—I took the pile of old jeans, too beat up to be handed down one more time, and a scrap of crimson calico and made a patchwork quilt for the couch.
These were special jeans I just hadn’t been able to let go of. Jeans with memories. Some were stained with droplets of khaki-grey paint from the year we had tried to match the cabin color to the surrounding pine-tree trunks—and the munchkins had all insisted on helping us paint. Some jeans had silly patches on them that had once seemed funny but were now embarrassing: “Don’t swim in lumpy water.” Some had been accidentally tie-dyed with too much bleach and were now beyond fashionably funky even for kindergartners. But I still loved them all.
With the old Singer that had come with the cabin and the old pinking shears, over many quiet nights after the children were in bed, I cut and pieced together those squares that had meaning for me. Randi’s back pocket; Mike’s torn knee piece from the time he fell off his bike on the gravel; Kelly’s embroidered old favorites that had backed into a wet paintbrush; Eric’s favorite hippie jeans, ruined for school forever by the oil stain near the crotch.
The quilt, when it finally came together, was perfect. The patches were worn and soft, like old jeans always are. But impervious. The sand flicked off in the mornings with a quick flap against the porch rail, and any dampness the quilt might have acquired was burned off by the sun before it was needed again late in the day. For almost twenty years the quilt hung waiting each summer afternoon for cold, wet kids to come cuddling.
Of course, the children grew. The quilt was big, but it would only cover one teen adequately. And even though they professed to hate each other for a while and would share nothing else under the sun, I’d catch them on occasion, two, even three big kids, squeezed together watching a rerun, warming up beneath the quilt for half an hour, turf wars forgotten.
But families change. Ours did. A divorce happened, the children’s father got the cabin, and years later it was sold, all furnishings included.
I had long since moved on and made my peace with the cabin’s loss. The lifestyle we had there was indelible and everlasting, and so there was no loss, not really, not with such good memories. I wondered about the fate of the quilt, but only as you wonder nostalgically about a dear old friend you’ve lost touch with.
Fast-forward to Mother’s Day this year. Two thousand miles to the south, another indestructible leather couch holds a huddle of children. The Baja beach where I now live is nothing but sand waiting to cling to everything. Wet bathing suits are now salty from the Pacific, not just damp from the fresh inland waters of Wisconsin. Little pieces of seaweed instead of pine needles stick to feet. But the lifestyle is much the same. And now grandchildren snuggle on the couch, warming up for a few moments while watching SpongeBob—wrapped in the quilt.
Where did it come from?
My children missed it. One of them drove four hundred miles to see if it was still there, at the cabin someone else now owns, to ask if they could have it back, and to bring it home.
It was a surprise, my gift this Mother’s Day. And on the crimson calico squares, between the denim, one of them had written, in black Magic Marker that will stay forever:
Dear Mom,
You will never know
how much I
remember and treasure
all that you did
and all that
you taught me
as I grew up.
I love you forever.
The signature is on a favorite denim square with a little dancing frog stitched on—a frog that once frolicked on the jeans of a six-year-old. Of course it has a paint stain.
Paula McDonald
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What began for Heather as a part-time freelancing job in 1995 turned into a full-time job as editorial director for Chicken Soup for the Soul Enterprises in 1996. She coauthored
Chicken Soup for the
Unsinkable Soul
and
Chicken Soup for the Sister’s Soul
.
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Marci Shimoff is coauthor of the
New York Times
bestsellers
Chicken
Soup for the Woman’s Soul, Chicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul I
and
II
,
A
Second Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul,
and
Chicken Soup for the
Single’s Soul.
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