The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy (29 page)

            
The Joy of Erotic Massage
(The New School of Erotic Touch)

Chapter 7:
Strip Clubs, Phone Sex, and Call Girls—For Two

Phone Sex

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Phone Sex: Aural Thrills and Oral Skills
, Miranda Austin

      
WEBSITES:

            
www.phonesexcentral.com
,

            
www.800phonesexsearch.com

Call Girls and Prostitutes

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Paying for It
, Greta Christina

            
Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture
, Carol Queen

            
Turning Pro: A Guide to Sex Work for the Ambitious and the Intrigued
, Magdalane Meretrix

      
WEBSITES:

            
Escort guides:
www.eros-guide.com
,
www.janesguide.com

            
Legal brothels, Nevada:
http://thenevadabrothels.com/index.html

Chapter 8:
Public Sex

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
A Guide to America's Sex Laws
, Richard A. Posner and Katherine B. Silbaugh

      
WEBSITES:

            
Public indecency and “lewdness” laws by state:
www.nudist-resorts.org/statutes.htm

Swinging

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers
, Terry Gould

      
VIDEOS, INSTRUCTIONAL:

            
Nina Hartley's Guide to Swinging
(Adam & Eve)

            
Swinging: From Fantasy to Reality
(Loving Sex/Alexander Institute)

      
MAGAZINES:

            
Loving More:
http://lovemore.com

      
WEBSITES:

            
Instructional:
www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html

            
World's largest swinging convention:
http://lifestyles-convention.com

            
Lifestyle organization:
www.playcouples.com

            
Network:
www.theswinginglife.com
,
www.adultfriendfinder.com

            
North American Swing Club Association:
www.nasca.com

            
Resources for swing parties in your area:
www.eros-guide.com
. Quality-rated and reviewed swing parties can be found at
www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Swinging).

            
San Francisco's Power Exchange:
www.powerexchange.com

Alternative Sex Parties

      
WEBSITES:

            
www.eros-guide.com/events.htm

            
www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Night Clubs/Resorts)

Chapter 9:
Fetishes

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Come Hither: A Common Sense Guide
, Gloria Brame

            
Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

            
Deviant Desires: Incredibly Strange Sex
, Katharine Gates

            
Re/Search #12: Modern Primitives
, V. Vale

            
Fakir Musafar: Spirit + Flesh
, Fakir Musafar

      
BOOKS, EROTICA:

            
Best Fetish Erotica
, Cara Bruce

      
MAGAZINES, FETISH FASHION (INCLUDING RUBBER):

            
Blue Blood, Demonia, Fetish Realm, Heavy Rubber, Marquis, Secret, Skin Two, Ritual, Taboo

      
WEBSITES, FETISH FASHION (INCLUDING RUBBER):

            
Blue Blood:
www.blueblood.net

            
Dark Garden:
www.darkgarden.net

            
Skin Two Magazine:
www.skintwo.com

            
Secret Magazine:
www.secretmag.com

            
Marquis Magazine (German):
www.marquis.de

            
Rubber and fetish fashion community network—check out the wide variety of fetish links in the “rubberdex” at:
www.rubberist.net

            
House of Gord, the “home of ultra-bondage,” is a shrine for extreme rubber fetishists and forniphiliacs (human rubberized furniture):
www.houseofgord.com

            
Fetish parties:
www.eros-guide.com/events.htm
;
www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Night Clubs/Resorts)

      
WEBSITES, GENERAL:

            
Fetishes index:
www.sexuality.org/fetish.html

            
For scores of links to thousands of individual fetish websites, visit
http://dir.yahoo.com/Business_and_Economy/Shopping_and_Services/Sex/Adult_Galleries/

            
Fewer sites, though less commerce-oriented than the index above, are at
http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Sexuality/Fetishes_and_Fantasies/

            
Personal pages on this index:
http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Sexuality/Activities_and_Practices/

            
Jane's Guide has a reviewed fetish site section helpfully organized by topic at
www.janesguide.com
; click on “Review Index.”

Chapter 10:
Erotic Dominance and Submission: S/M Fantasies

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Come Hither: A Common Sense Guide to Kinky Sex
, Gloria Brame

            
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs, Will Brame

            
Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

            
S/M 101: A Realistic Introduction
, Jay Wiseman

      
BOOKS, EROTIC FICTION:

            
Best Bondage Erotica
, Alison Tyler

            
Carrie's Story
, Molly Weatherfield

            
Macho Sluts
, Patrick Califia

            
Safe Word
, Molly Weatherfield

      
VIDEOS, INSTRUCTIONAL:

            
Fetish FAQ
(series, 1-4) (Ernest Greene and Mistress Ilsa Strix; Gwen Media)

            
Whipsmart: A Good Vibrations Guide to Beginning S/M for Couples
(Sex Positive Productions)

Sweet Submission

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
, Claudia Varrin

            
The New Bottoming Book
, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

When Being in Charge Turns You On

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
, Mistress Loreli

            
The New Topping Book
, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Captivity and Erotic Torment

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Erotic Bondage Handbook
, Jay Wiseman

            
The Klutz Book of Knots
, John Cassidy

            
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
, Fetish Diva Midori

Pleasurable Pain and Punishment

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Compleat Spanker
, Lady Green

            
Family Jewels
, Hardy Haberman

            
Flogging
, Joseph Bean

            
Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

            
S/M 101: A Realistic Introduction
, Jay Wiseman

Organizations and Private Clubs

            
The Exiles: woman to woman S/M:
www.theexiles.org

            
QSM—Quality S/M books and nice link list:
www.qualitysm.com

            
San Francisco's Society of Janus—site has extensive links to reputable regional organizations:
www.soj.org

Seeing a Professional Dominatrix

      
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED PROFESSIONALS:

            
Cleo DuBois Academy of S/M Arts:
www.cleodubois.com

            
Fetish Diva Midori and Fire Horse Productions—“Thoughtful erotic education for adventurous adults”:
www.fetishdiva.com

            
Mistress Morgana of San Francisco:
www.mistressmorgana.com

Chapter 11:
Sex Games

Messy Fun

      
BOOKS, ART:

            
Messy Girls
, Charles Gatewood

Aphrodisiac Seductions

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
, Martha Hopkins and Randall Lockridge

            
Temptations: Igniting the Pleasure and Power of Aphrodisiacs
, Ellen and Michael Albertson

Make Your Own Porn

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Erotic Home Videos: Create Your Own Adult Films
, Anna Span

            
The Little Digital Video Book
, Michael Rubin

Your Erotic Photo Shoot

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Little Digital Camera Book
, Cynthia Baron and Daniel Peck

            
Photography for Perverts
, Charles Gatewood

Webcams and Digital Images

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Little Web Cam Book
, Elisabeth Parker

Chapter 12:
Safer Sex

      
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