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Authors: Rosemary Say

Rosie's War

First published in Great Britain in 2011 by Michael O’Mara Books Limited 9 Lion Yard Tremadoc Road London SW4 7NQ

This electronic edition published in 2011

ISBN: 978-1-84317-646-6 in EPub format

ISBN: 978-1-84317-647-3 in Mobipocket format

ISBN: 978-1-84317-557-5 in hardback print format

Copyright © Rosemary Say and Noel Holland 2011

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Contents

Prologue

PART ONE: An Englishwoman Abroad
January 1939 – December 1940


CHAPTER ONE
: Departure for France


CHAPTER TWO
: Settling Into Avignon


CHAPTER THREE
: France at War


CHAPTER FOUR
: Paris and the American Hospital


CHAPTER FIVE
: The Police Canteen

PART TWO: Enemy Alien
December 1940 – May 1941


CHAPTER SIX
: Arrest and Imprisonment


CHAPTER SEVEN
: Settling Into Besançon


CHAPTER EIGHT
: People, Post, Prayers and Prostitutes


CHAPTER NINE
: Doctors, Birthday and Moving Camps

PART THREE: Breaking Free
May – November 1941


CHAPTER TEN
: Vittel: The Model Camp


CHAPTER ELEVEN
: Camp Routine


CHAPTER TWELVE
: Thoughts of Leaving


CHAPTER THIRTEEN
: Escape

PART FOUR: The Long Road Home
November 1941 – March 1942


CHAPTER FOURTEEN
: Into Unoccupied France


CHAPTER FIFTEEN
: Settling Down in Marseille


CHAPTER SIXTEEN
: The Wait


CHAPTER SEVENTEEN
: To London

Epilogue


APPENDIX A
: Rosie’s Journey


APPENDIX B
: What Happened Next

Picture Acknowledgements

Index

Plates

Prologue

‘O
h, come on, Mum! We’re nearly finished now. Surely you must remember how you reacted?’

Silence.

‘Look. Think back. You’re an English girl. It’s June 1940. You’re standing on the Champs-Elysées and the German army’s marching right past you into Paris …’

More silence.

‘You must have reacted. Why doesn’t your generation seem to feel anything?’

Mum looked at me. She wasn’t going to react. We were having tea in her North London flat while we talked about her wartime escapades in France. She had asked for our help in setting it all down in a book. But I think she was fast beginning to regret involving us – her daughter and son-in-law – in anything to do with her story.

‘Well,’ she said, giving my husband a big smile, ‘I fancy some wine. How about you two?’

‘Bloody stonewalling, Mum. Don’t just ignore my questions.’

I could keep on protesting but I knew it was all over for today. My mother was a determined woman. The very experiences we were writing about had made her a lot tougher than me. If she decided that she did not want to express her feelings then that was that.

I watched her struggle to her feet and walk over to the kitchen. She was a tall woman in her late seventies, bent low by the onset of Parkinson’s. But you could still clearly see the active and slightly ungainly girl who smiled out from the wartime photographs that were spread out on the table in front of us.

She had started to write down her story before she became ill. We had offered to help her complete it, asking questions and fleshing out the rough draft. But, as usual, our efforts to explore further were reaching a stalemate. We didn’t seem to be able to get any deeper into her life or thoughts. Most sessions would end like this one, with me getting frustrated and fast reverting back to petulant adolescence, my husband being a bit embarrassed and my mother becoming annoyed at my strident tone. Hence her offer of a drink as a way of ending the interview.

I am old enough to have parents who experienced the Second World War as adults. Like many other children of my generation, I grew up on their wartime stories.

In my mother’s case, these adventures were particularly dashing. She was trapped in France after the German army had invaded that country in 1940, was imprisoned in a German-run camp in the east of France and escaped to England in the middle of the war. She subsequently worked in Spain for the glamorous and secretive Special Operations Executive until a scandalous romantic entanglement led to her being sent back to England.

These tales were all part of our family myth. They had become a series of funny episodes that helped to explain some of the eccentricities of my mother’s character. Why did a quiet family weekend away, for example, mean at least six complete changes of clothes, enough food for a week and several large emergency items (I remember a plastic washing-up bowl on one occasion)? Why did she have an almost pathological hatred of being left in the dark right to the end of her life? And how had she acquired an encyclopaedic knowledge of nineteenth-century French literature? She had certainly never formally studied the subject.

Memory plays tricks. At this late stage in her life my mother could not always disentangle myth from reality and often she didn’t want to. She had honed her stories over the years. She had literally dined out on them for more than half a century. They might be delivered before the pudding or after someone else’s tale. Her aim would be to produce from her listeners the appropriate responses of amusement or awe. Historical accuracy was not necessarily so important.

In this way, the long passage of time had turned the coherent events of a little over three years in the life of a young girl into a series of humorous but mostly unrelated cameos. My mother loved being seen as a great character and she certainly had the life stories to match. Her war escapades were the high point. Like most children, I simply accepted the stories, having heard them hundreds of times. It was not until we began to write them down that I realized how complex is the relationship between memory and truth. On a simple level, my mother would confuse key wartime facts or dates, even when she was using them to explain or remember her own experiences.

The death of the actor Leslie Howard is an example. When she escaped from the German prison camp and travelled across Europe, she had real difficulty in getting a seat on a flight to Ireland from Portugal. Why? Because Leslie Howard had been killed on the same route just a few weeks previously, his plane having been shot down by the Luftwaffe. At least, that was my mother’s explanation. It was not until after her death that we checked the facts: Howard’s fatal crash was actually a year later. Yet my mother had been certain for over half a century that the crash had been in some way the reason for her problems in getting a flight.

Stress or panic alters memory. In my mother’s account there are at least thirteen Saturdays to a month. She seemed to talk of everything happening on a Saturday. This meant that throughout her escape and travels she was continually being blocked and frustrated by shops closing early or offices not open. Yet again the curse of the weekend, she would moan! But when we checked the dates we found that this had happened only once or twice. Just often enough to leave a recollection of such panic that it coloured all her reminiscences.

Memories are personal possessions. But once you tell them to others they are out there to be used. I remember her indignation at finding her own stories being purloined for someone else’s autobiography. ‘How would she know that? She was never around the camp at the time. I told her that story after the war when I was working at
The New Statesman
.’ Such was her typically caustic comment on one woman’s so-called autobiography. That particular book is sitting on the shelf in front of me as I write this.

Feelings were rarely present in what my mother recounted. Her tales were all about action and events. Emotion would only surface when she felt that someone else had borrowed her remembrances for their own ends. Yet her story was that of a young woman, with all the self-doubt, introspection and emotion of youth. Exciting or amusing adventures are all very well but they only explain what happened, not why something happened.

‘Weren’t you scared when you saw the Germans marching into Paris? Or exhilarated? You were only yards away from them.

‘Why did you leave it until June 1940, when Hitler was practically on your doorstep, before you tried to get home to England? Didn’t you want to be with your family at such a dangerous time?’

These were the sorts of questions that my mother simply refused to answer. Many of her background and generation – a middle-class girl born in 1919 – refuse to analyze or even acknowledge their motives and feelings. Maybe this was the way it had to be. Perhaps the war generation managed to survive and be so brave precisely because they didn’t try to explain or rationalize. The same phrases recur in their memoirs: ‘You just did it’; ‘It was expected of you’; ‘No one questioned it’; ‘I just happened to be there’; ‘Anyone would have done the same’.

It’s all so self-effacing, so relentlessly cheery, so matter-of-fact. Any attempt to probe further or to dig deeper is dismissed with a casual remark: ‘Oh, I don’t know about that … Now, shall we have another drink?’

Perhaps we underestimate the impact of signing the Official Secrets Act. That signature covers you for life, not just until you finish your job. If you can’t talk about significant events when they happen, you withdraw over time even from your own past. That was certainly the case with my mother.

Just take a glance at the Colditz escape accounts of Pat Reid or Airey Neave. Watch the wartime films of John Mills. Or marvel at the cheery Kenneth More playing the part of the terribly injured Douglas Bader. All phlegmatic. Distant. Detached.

Such reticence came up again and again as we talked to my mother and her friends and read autobiographies of the time. You feel as if you only ever hear half the story. The person seems to be recounting someone else’s life, not their own. There is a tremendous remoteness and coldness in the tale.

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